Background:
Some think that in Islam a woman's place is in the home and they are not
allowed outside or without the permission of their husbands or male family
members. Some also think that women should not be allowed out by themselves
unless chaperoned.
The
Quran has several examples in which women are able to go freely and be amongst
the community. The clearest example are in the references to Mary, some of
which are shown below:
And
relate in the Scripture Mary, when she withdrew herself from her family to a
place which was to the east. [19:16]
So
she was pregnant with him, and she retired to a far place. [19:22]
"So
eat and drink and be happy. If you see any person, then Say: "I have made
a vow of abstention for the Almighty, and I will not talk today to any
person."Then she came to her people carrying him. They said: "O Mary,
you have come with something totally unexpected!"[19:26-27]
The
above verses prove beyond doubt that she was alone in a location where it was
possible other people may have met her, and then she returned to her people.
The
example of Mary is very important because The Quran gives her a special status:
And
when the angels said: O Mary! Surely God has chosen you and purified you and
selected you above the women of all the beings. [3:42]
The
Quran also gives an example in which believing women were allowed to be amongst
the community even in times of hostility:
And
those who harm the believing men and the believing women, with no just reason,
shall bear the guilt of slander and an evident crime.O prophet, tell your
wives, your daughters, and the wives of the believers that they should lengthen
upon themselves their outer garments. That is better so that they would be
recognized and not harmed. God is Forgiver, Merciful.
If the hypocrites, and those with disease in their hearts and those who spread lies in the city do not refrain, then We will let you overpower them, then they will not be able to remain as your neighbors except for a short while.[33:58-60]
If the hypocrites, and those with disease in their hearts and those who spread lies in the city do not refrain, then We will let you overpower them, then they will not be able to remain as your neighbors except for a short while.[33:58-60]
Women
were also free to petition and interact with the prophet directly (who would
have been the leader of the community at the time):
God
has heard the woman who pleads with you regarding her husband, and she
complained to God. And God hears the argument between you. God is Hearer, Seer. [58;1]
O
you prophet, if the believing women come to make allegiance to you that they
will not set up anything besides God, nor steal, nor commit adultery, nor kill
their children, nor fabricate any falsehood, nor disobey you in any matter
which is righteous, then you shall accept their allegiance, and ask God to
forgive them. God is Forgiver, Merciful. [60:12]
There
is also an example in which an engaged couple may meet in secret if they have
something righteous to discuss:
And
there is no sin upon you if you openly propose marriage to these women, or you
keep it between yourselves. God knows that you will be thinking of them, but do
not meet them secretly, unless you have something righteous to discuss... [2:235]
There
is also a clear example in The Quran of Moses speaking to two unmarried women
in public, one of whom he married later:
And
when he came to the water of Madyan, he found on it a group of men watering,
and he found besides them two women keeping back (their flocks). He said: What
is the matter with you? They said: We cannot water until the shepherds take
away (their sheep) from the water, and our father is a very old man. So he
watered (their sheep) for them, then went back to the shade and said: My
Sustainer! surely I stand in need of whatever good Thou may send down to me.
Then one of the two women came to him walking bashfully. She said: My father invites
you that he may give you the reward of your having watered for us... [28:23-25]
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