Don't Suicide

A friend of a friend committed suicide a few days ago. From the outset she didn't seem like someone who had any extraordinary problems. We all have things we're dealing with right? The closer to her you were, the more social layers you bypassed the more you could tell that there were some real demons he was dealing with. The worst of all were the ones he fought alone at night. Suicide is like cancer. Everyone thinks it won’t affect them or anyone they know, until it does. Suicide stems from depression and there is a process of decay that takes place within a person’s character that leads to them taking their life. It’s a real problem in our society.

To most of us the first thing that crosses our mind is, why aren't they thankful for what they have rather than concentrating on the negatives in life. Surely everyone goes through ups and downs. Some of us think, why are they being ungrateful to God? There's people out there who don't have food and drink and are dying daily. As Muslim we know this is haram and only God has the power to make the decision of who lives and who doesn't. But to someone who’s contemplating suicide, it's not that black and white. No level of rational thinking will tell you to take your own life, rather it's clouded and emotional judgement that makes someone think that this is the only option left. Guys there's never a right answer to dealing with someone going through that problem. Often the best thing you can do is just to offer your presence; physically, mentally and spiritually.

Understand the problems that the person is going through and listen without judgement. We can be a supporting hand for them to see the positives in life. Tell them that Allah never burdens a soul with anything it can't handle and that there is always calm after the storm. We need to always be there for one another and support all the people we know who are going through a tough time. If you're going through anything, know that you can message The Voice for support. May Allah help all those who are going through struggles in life?Contributed by: @burfiiiii#thevoicetoday